Short rules, seriously enforced

1. Be a real person

One account per human. Your photos have to be of you, recent, and not misleading. No catfishing, no stolen photos, no pretending to be a different age or a different person. Everyone here verified themselves — you owe them the same honesty.

2. Be honest about your situation

Set your relationship status accurately. Married, separated, seeing someone, open relationship, single — all of it is welcome here, and plenty of members are specifically fine with any of it. What is not welcome is lying about it. People are entitled to decide what they are comfortable with, using true information.

3. Consent, every time

No means no. Silence means no. A previous yes is not a permanent yes. Do not send unsolicited explicit photos. Do not pressure, guilt, beg, or wear someone down. Do not push for contact details, photos, or a meeting after someone has said they are not comfortable.

4. Protect each other’s privacy

No screenshots. No saving or re-posting anyone’s photos. No forwarding messages. No telling people who you saw on here. No outing anyone, ever, for any reason. This is the rule we enforce most harshly, because breaking it can genuinely ruin somebody’s life.

5. No money, ever

This app is free and always will be. Do not ask members for money, gifts, or top-ups. Do not advertise paid services here. Do not run scams, crypto pitches, or “my friend needs help” stories. Commercial sexual services are not permitted on the platform.

6. Adults only, obviously

18 and over, no exceptions. If we believe an account belongs to a minor it is removed immediately. If you suspect an account belongs to someone underage, report it right away — do not engage with them first.

7. Keep it non-explicit in public spaces

Profile photos and bios are seen by everyone browsing, so keep them clothed and non-graphic. What two consenting adults share privately, after both have agreed to it, is their own business.

8. No hate, harassment, or cruelty

No racism, casteism, homophobia, transphobia, or religious abuse. No body-shaming. No threats. No pile-ons. Rejection is part of this — handle it like an adult, and deliver it like one too.

What happens when someone breaks these

• Minor first slip — a warning, and sometimes a temporary limit on who you can contact.
• Repeat problems — reduced visibility, then suspension.
• Sharing someone’s photos or identity, harassment, scams, threats, or anything involving a minor — permanent removal, first time, no appeal. Where a crime may have been committed, we cooperate with the authorities.

Reporting

Every profile and chat has a report button, and it goes to a human. Reports are confidential — the person you report is never told who reported them. Please do use it; you are not being dramatic, you are helping.