Questions
Things people actually ask
If your question is not here, ask us directly — a human reads every message.
Is it really free?
Yes — every feature, forever. No premium tier, no boosts, no coins, no paying to see who liked you. We keep costs low by design rather than charging you, and we would rather run a smaller honest thing than a profitable miserable one.
What is the catch, then?
There is no catch, but there is a cost: we ask everyone to verify themselves with a photo, and we hold people to the community rules strictly. That is the trade. You get a place with real people in it; in exchange you prove you are one and behave decently.
Why is photo verification mandatory?
Because fake profiles are what make every other app in this space unbearable. We show you a random pose, you take a live selfie doing it, and we check it against your profile photos. It takes under a minute and it is the single reason this place feels different.
Do I have to let everyone see my photos?
No. Verifying and being seen are two different things, and only the first is required. You can show your photos to everyone, only to people you match with, or to nobody at all — and you keep the verified badge either way. If you pick the private setting you can still send a photo inside a conversation, and those are destroyed the moment they are opened.
If my photos are private, who has actually seen them?
No other member, unless you choose to show them. We check them against your verification selfie, because that comparison is the verification, but that is the only use they are put to. Tightening the setting breaks every photo link we have previously handed out, but it cannot un-see a picture somebody already saved; no app can, and we would rather say so.
Who can see my email address or contact details?
Nobody. Your email and other contact details are stored separately from your public profile, and the database rules make them unreadable to other accounts. This is enforced at the data layer, not merely hidden in the interface.
Can people see exactly where I live?
No. We store an approximate location snapped to a rough grid, and other members only ever see a distance band like "about 6 km away". There is no map, no pin, and no live location. We also strip hidden GPS data out of every photo you upload.
Do I have to verify my email?
There is nothing to do. Google sign-in is the only way in, and Google has already verified your address, so your account gets the verified-email badge automatically. We will never email you a confirmation link, because it would prove something we already know. Photo verification is the one that actually requires something from you.
I am married, or separated. Am I welcome here?
Yes, and you are not alone. We ask everybody to state their relationship status honestly — single, dating around, open relationship, married, separated, divorced, or complicated. Lying about it is what gets you removed, not the status itself.
Is this a place to find a serious relationship?
No, and we would rather say so plainly. This is built for casual, no-strings connections between adults.
What if I catch feelings anyway?
It happens, and it is not a failure. Say it out loud rather than quietly hoping — inside the app there is a way for two people to agree to change what they are to each other, so nobody has to guess. If the other person does not want the same thing, you both get to walk away honestly.
What happens if someone screenshots my photos?
Report them. Sharing or saving another member’s photos is the rule we enforce most harshly — it is a permanent removal on the first offence. If you are being threatened with your photos, the safety page explains exactly what to do.
Can I delete everything?
Yes. Deleting your account removes your profile, photos, messages and login from our systems — genuinely removed, not just hidden. You can also export your data or pause your profile without deleting it.
Do you sell my data?
No. We do not sell or share your personal information with advertisers or data brokers. There is no advertising business here to feed.